Dating...

Dating, Dating, Dating. If a woman could read a man's mind. I think all women would be in more productive and sensual relationships. I took myself off the dating scene for awhile, and just recently took a nice summer vacation to New York for a weekend and re-evaluated my decision. The men there are so attentive, complimentary, accepting, and very well put together. Meeting as many nice single guys as I did, made me want to get out there and have a good time. Entertain a good conversation every once in awhile and just have some fun. But I get so confused by men behavior.

One minute they're attentive, calling, and texting you on the hour, at times every hour, and all of sudden one day, your phone doesn't light up, ring, nor vibrate! They're un-attentive, disappeared. You then start to replay the last time you spoke or seen him~ Did I say something wrong., maybe I shouldn't of worn that red lip stick. I hope I didn't say something unpleasant or unattractive. You let yourself have a war with yourself, because of lack of common pleasantries of a man is nonexistence.

Women start to question and second guess themselves due to a man's own personal issues he may have in his life. When a males action are in question, and we have no clue as into why his actions have change; a woman will question herself and her own actions.. When in fact ladies it has nothing to do with you. Especially if they're on one minute and off the next. Let's continue to keep our own identity, and not change because of the identity crisis someone else may be experiencing. We fall in love with a person because of who they are, and not who we want them to be.

Therefore lets keep the trail of hearts following behind us, as we are who we are and our personality is for keeps!

It's Been A Minute

Yes it has been awhile. The last time I had the ambition, or creative time for myself or feeling of anything "emotional"; as into write was earlier this year. After a battle for an over price new home, a new car, a transitional; yet-beneficial move, and the absence of my big sister who is now living in another state. I think I'm finally starting to "feel" again. And what other way to do something I love so much, which is to write.

If we live life as it is, by overlooking the lesson; the negative cycle will continue. A cycle of complications, mistakes, wrong turns, and dead ends. Sometimes the lesson is hard to get, and yet when you calm yourself, take the higher road, or even turn the other cheek; there's no way you can miss it. It's there! And what we are suppose to learn or get out of our situations becomes clearer. And our trials come closer to an end.

For me at times its easier for me to preach it, rather than live it. I have learned my lessons and yet still find myself back in similar situations. Well now,yet again; I feel great things for myself. My emotions are on track, my mindset is set, and formatted. I have re-dreamed my dreams, re-set my goals, and re-establish my life. It's been a minute, but its back. We all go through set backs, and if you have a focus, or if you are serious about living right. You'll get back up. As in the words of Donnie Mc Clurkin, we get back up again. Because the further you go, the more you see, and the closer you get to God. We take a minute, break a minute, and long for another... minute.