shit happens...

picture by stacey woods

It is amazing how we go through numerous changes within a year, and force to learn from them in order to get pass them. Yet so many months later, we find ourselves retaking the same test again because we forget about the lesson we once learned before. We usually expect something awesome to come out of our struggle, and has yet to do so. Then we eventually fall back into a state of not believing, or forcing a change in what we are dealing with at that time. I just recently went through a struggle I once experienced before, but yet forgotten.

I am a firm believer of God, and I have always thought when something goes wrong in my life, that I needed to reflect on what I may have done that could have possibly caused this emotional set back or hurt. I have lived with this "train of thought" for years. Thinking when something goes wrong, and I couldn’t find anything to reflect on that I could have possibly done. I would start to hard on myself and confuse myself even more. Which would then affect the natural things of my life.

I have now come to understand that SHIT HAPPENS!

Being perfect is what we strive for, and yet we do have our short comings, ....but understand this… life does continue with or without you, and things go on. Realize that you are able to move on and from things, and that "somethings"  just may not have a meaning. Everything does not happen for a reason, only for the knowledge of knowing, and being prepared for your own future, or someone else’s. From my experience to yours, try not to be so hard on yourself, for the things that are ordain to make you a better person is for the glorification of your life.

As I’ve said before and I have no problem saying it again, “Shit Happens”.